There are going to be times when the people who are the closest to you put you through tests. Some of these are true love tests. They will put you through these games because they feel as if they are not worthy of you caring and being with them. Some people just feel that if it is too good to be true for them, then most likely it might be.
However, the games are really not necessary. When two people are grown and should be able to communicate with one another, they should just be able to talk through their problems. The person should be able to say, you are making me feel a certain way in the relationship, and I do not like it.
Are you staying out late? Sneaking in the middle of the night to make phone calls, or are you just too mysterious. When in a relationship you have to take the other persons feelings into consideration at all times. That person should be part of you, and vice verse, there should never be a question about feelings or commitment.
You can plan to go out to dinner, or just have dinner at home and make it a special night. It is important to shut off the outside world and have no interruptions. Both parties want to be heard and felt as if they are important. So, this will mean no cellphones as well. Most people have problems with staying away from their phone.
Tests or games no one likes them, nor do they want to play them when it comes to relationships. The best thing that you can do is sit down and talk to your partner. Let them know how you are feeling and what the games are doing to the relationship.
You tend to see both people worried about what the other person is doing. Some people just worry unnecessarily and this can put the relationship in limbo. So, what do you do if you are the person being put through these changes?
It is important to take time to understand where the person is coming from. You do not want to throw them under the bus, and tell them they have a problem and just walk away. They might literally have a problem and just need a little help to see that what they are doing is not okay. So, you want to come up with a plan to get them and your relationship help.
Always focus on the good in one another and that will help to outweigh the negative. You have to remember that everyone comes with flaws. If you talk to the person and they still continue to play games and it is hurting you and the relationship, sometimes you have to make a decision to take a break from the relationship. Be sure to take a break in a way that it can be respected by your partner. Remember the person might not think that there is any harm in putting you through so many changes. However, it is important to let them know that you cannot handle the stress.
However, the games are really not necessary. When two people are grown and should be able to communicate with one another, they should just be able to talk through their problems. The person should be able to say, you are making me feel a certain way in the relationship, and I do not like it.
Are you staying out late? Sneaking in the middle of the night to make phone calls, or are you just too mysterious. When in a relationship you have to take the other persons feelings into consideration at all times. That person should be part of you, and vice verse, there should never be a question about feelings or commitment.
You can plan to go out to dinner, or just have dinner at home and make it a special night. It is important to shut off the outside world and have no interruptions. Both parties want to be heard and felt as if they are important. So, this will mean no cellphones as well. Most people have problems with staying away from their phone.
Tests or games no one likes them, nor do they want to play them when it comes to relationships. The best thing that you can do is sit down and talk to your partner. Let them know how you are feeling and what the games are doing to the relationship.
You tend to see both people worried about what the other person is doing. Some people just worry unnecessarily and this can put the relationship in limbo. So, what do you do if you are the person being put through these changes?
It is important to take time to understand where the person is coming from. You do not want to throw them under the bus, and tell them they have a problem and just walk away. They might literally have a problem and just need a little help to see that what they are doing is not okay. So, you want to come up with a plan to get them and your relationship help.
Always focus on the good in one another and that will help to outweigh the negative. You have to remember that everyone comes with flaws. If you talk to the person and they still continue to play games and it is hurting you and the relationship, sometimes you have to make a decision to take a break from the relationship. Be sure to take a break in a way that it can be respected by your partner. Remember the person might not think that there is any harm in putting you through so many changes. However, it is important to let them know that you cannot handle the stress.